About Family Constellation Sessions with Gülay Gecü
What is Family Constellation?
Family Constellation is a holistic practice aimed at understanding the visible or invisible bonds, intergenerational transmissions, and repetitive relationship patterns formed within the family system to which an individual belongs. The primary goal of Family Constellation is to reorganize the disrupted flow within the system. Traumas, unexpressed emotions, unprocessed grief, or excluded family members within the family system can cause interruptions in the energy flow. These interruptions affect not only the period in which they occurred but can also lead to the repetition of similar problems in subsequent generations.
According to the Family Constellation approach, energy flows from top to bottom within the family system. When this natural flow is disrupted for any reason, the entire system is affected. During a Family Constellation session, the traumas blocking this flow are made visible; suppressed emotions are expressed, and incomplete processes are recognized. In sessions conducted through representatives, the system’s flow can regain movement as a representative processes the grief or reveals the traumatic situation.
Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation Therapy, explains this situation with these words:
“Entanglement occurs when a person unconsciously takes on and lives out the fate of a previous family member within the family system.”
Family Constellation work aims to identify these entanglements and enable the individual to separate their own life from the fate of their family.
How Do Family Constellation Sessions with Gülay Gecü Proceed?
In Family Constellation sessions, an individual’s bonds with their family system are addressed within the framework of relational repetitions, emotional burdens, and intergenerational transmissions. Sessions are conducted in a non-judgmental and professional environment, respecting the client’s boundaries. The goal is not to offer quick fixes but to create space for the client to realize their own internal process and progress step-by-step with this awareness.
Sessions are carried out through representatives, and the client is an active part of the process. During the work, what is being done, why it is being done, and the current stage of the process are shared clearly and understandably. This transparent approach supports the client’s confident involvement in the process.
At EFT Journey Academy, Family Constellation is not seen as an application promising superficial or single-session solutions; it is viewed as a professional field of work that allows the individual to address family bonds, emotional burdens, and recurring cycles in their life with deeper awareness.
Note Regarding the Session: The session takes place through representatives.
Session Duration: Lasts approximately 1.5 – 2 hours.

